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Dejaye has been in Old Town Scottsdale  for over one year.  Now she has added a second location in  Ahw​atukee!

Insurance - no problem!

 Dejaye is now in-network with 

Aetna and MHN!

Office Locations:

4435 E. Chandler Blvd. 

Phoenix, Arizona 85048


7272 E. Indian School Rd.

Scottsdale, Arizona 85281

For appointment text: 203.609.1714


Let me help you Find Your Best Self

Welcome to Extinguishing Fear Life Coaching and Counseling

Dejaye Botkin, MA, LPC, NCC, DBTC, CTP has been helping individuals and families in crisis for eighteen years!

The Scottsdale Financial Center III

Regus Offices - 5th Floor 

7272 Indian School Road

Scottsdale, Arizona 85251


Dejaye Botkin is a Certified Trauma Professional, 

a Certified Mediator, and Certified in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy.

Offering EMDR for Trauma. 

Psychological Therapies

Offering traditional psychotherapy for individuals, couples, and families.

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Coaching Services

Offering motivational coaching. Teaching you and/or your family how to overcome obstacles that may be blocking your personal success and relationships.

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Available for speaking engagements. Empowering   your audience to be their best self by extinguishing the fears that are holding them back.

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"Dejaye has been one of the best influences of my life because of her demeanor, ability to tell me the truth, and helping me to change my mindset. I went  from feeling like I needed to live in chaos to allowing myself to be happy."

Client, NYC

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 Parent, Scottsdale

"Thank you for presenting a wonderful, informative, and dynamic presentation to our district staff.  It was evident that a great deal of planning went into preparing this important message.  I greatly appreciate your expertise in delivering this much needed program."

Principal, Andover School District